“Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth” ~ Unknown
Relationships are a part of life and the most important one is with yourself.
Why? It’s because that’s where it all begins, with your self-confidence. When you see yourself as someone valuable, loving, and worthy, that’s how the world will perceive you as well.
How do you get there?
First of all, who are you and how would you describe yourself in ten words or more? How would your close friends and family describe you? I encourage you to take a pen and paper and write as many words out as you can think of and dare to dream big! You matter in this world and have so much to offer, it’s time you start recognising your own special gifts and qualities so you can share them with others.
When you know you are worthy of living a famous and fantastic life, you are able to trust yourself and the decisions you make. If things don’t go as planned, you are well equipped to handle it. When you can take responsibility for your own decisions and actions then you don’t live the life of a victim. And we all know that living the life of a victim is not famous or fantastic, right?! In order to evolve from within as a beautiful woman, it’s important to view your mistakes as learning opportunities so you can grow as a person. After all, self-improvement can be sexy and when you sport that new bikini along with your high self-confidence, you will not only wow other people but you will wow yourself.
Something else to consider is learning to love yourself more so you can give and receive love in return. When a woman is able to set healthy personal boundaries for herself, this means she is prioritising her needs. She lives with her true values of who she really is without trying to “fit in” with the crowd and instead of relying on someone else’s opinion of who she is, she knows she is worthy and beautiful. If others can’t see your worth, it’s their issue, not yours. When you truly love yourself that means you are accepting your imperfections because knowing we are all imperfect is what actually connects us. Perfection is a dangerous and slippery slope that only disconnects us. Besides, perfection is an illusion so why strive for something that doesn’t exist?
Respect your body by eating healthy foods, getting regular exercise, and enough sleep. When you take care of yourself in all areas of your life such as physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually, this is a sign that your overall health and wellness is important to you. The only person in charge of your life is you and in order to live it famously and fully, you need to embrace it famously and fully.
Once you know who you really are, it’s time to set some goals about what you want out of life. We all have dreams we want to achieve and it’s never too late to start something you’ve always wanted to do. Setting goals is the first step and why that goal is important to you. If something isn’t that important, chances of being able to achieve it are slim. Know what skills you have that can help you reach your goals and find out what you need in order to make it a reality. Once you have this information, it’s time to take action by creating some action steps. What small steps can you take in the next 24 hours that could put the ball in motion for you? Be aware of when and where you will be able to achieve it and this will give you the foundation of living your life famously.
~ Amy Magnisalis, FAME4WOMEN